We all know trauma can leave deep emotional scars, right? But here’s something not everyone talks about: sometimes, those who’ve faced life-shattering events don’t just heal—they transform. Welcome to the world of Post-Traumatic Growth (PTG), where recovery isn’t just about getting back to “normal”—it’s about becoming someone stronger, more connected, and even more inspired than before.
So, what exactly is post-traumatic growth? How does it differ from PTSD recovery? And—let’s be real—is it actually possible to grow from trauma?
Buckle up, because we’re diving into the real, raw, and incredibly powerful journey of PTG.
Coined in the mid-1990s by psychologists Richard Tedeschi and Lawrence Calhoun, Post-Traumatic Growth is the positive psychological change experienced as a result of struggling with highly challenging life circumstances.
In plain English? It’s when you go through hell—and come out the other side not just alive, but thriving.
It’s not about the trauma being “worth it” or romanticizing suffering. Instead, it’s about acknowledging that in the process of healing, some people discover new perspectives, deeper meaning, and emotional resilience they didn’t have before.
PTSD | PTG |
---|---|
Fear, anxiety, flashbacks | Meaning, insight, gratitude |
Disruption of daily life | New appreciation for life |
Hypervigilance, avoidance | Stronger relationships |
Emotional numbness | Personal growth and resilience |
According to Tedeschi and Calhoun, PTG shows up in five core areas:
Not everyone who goes through trauma will experience PTG—and that’s OK. But certain factors do make it more likely:
– Sasha, abuse survivor and advocate
After years in an abusive relationship, Sasha found herself spiraling in PTSD. But through therapy and joining a support group, she began to speak out—eventually starting a nonprofit for other survivors. “I didn’t get my old life back,” she says. “I got a better one.”
– James, Iraq war veteran
James struggled for years with PTSD after returning home. It wasn’t until he started mentoring fellow veterans and openly sharing his story that he felt like he was really healing. Now he’s a certified peer counselor.
Sometimes, the most impactful insights come not from textbooks—but from people who’ve lived it.
In this short clip from the After Action Podcast, Chris Scallon, a veteran and retired police sergeant, joins Jesse Kove to talk about how post-traumatic growth isn’t just possible—it’s a path worth walking.
“You have to go through the darkness to get to the light. If you don’t deal with your trauma, it’ll keep driving. But when you face it, that’s when you grow.”
– Chris Scallon
Wanna hear more of this real talk?
👉 Watch the full episode of the After Action Podcast here.
This is real talk from real warriors—about pain, healing, and choosing to grow.
Ready to nudge the needle toward growth in your own healing journey—or help someone else do the same? Here’s where to start:
Find a therapist trained in modalities like EMDR, CPT, or narrative therapy. They can help you safely explore your trauma and start finding meaning.
Writing down your thoughts, fears, and progress helps clarify what you’re feeling and uncover insights.
Practices like breathwork and guided meditation reconnect you with your body and inner peace.
Peer groups, whether online or in-person, remind you that you’re not alone—and healing doesn’t have to happen in isolation.
Volunteering, advocacy, or creative work can channel pain into something powerfully positive.
Let’s bust a myth here: Growth doesn’t mean you’re “over it.” Many people who experience PTG still live with symptoms of PTSD.
You can be healing and hurting at the same time. You can have nightmares one night and experience clarity the next. And that’s perfectly normal.
Here’s a quick snapshot of what science is finding about PTG:
Yes! In fact, many people experience both. Growth doesn’t mean the pain vanishes—it means you’re finding strength alongside the struggle.
Nope. PTG isn’t about denying pain. It’s about embracing truth and discovering meaning through it.
Not necessarily—and that’s okay. Growth is personal and can look different for everyone.
So, what’s the big takeaway? Post-Traumatic Growth doesn’t erase the trauma—but it redefines the story. It’s not a straight line. It’s messy, unpredictable, and deeply human. But it’s also a reminder that from the ashes, something new—sometimes even beautiful—can rise.
Whether you’re in the thick of it or on the other side, remember this: You are not broken. You are becoming.